DIV/VY is a boutique Divorce Agency focused on Consultation, Coaching, and Community. We work with clients who are considering, in the process of or post-divorce. Our goal is to create a holistic, strategic plan for each client that focuses on the business of divorce as opposed to the emotional entanglement of divorce.

Your future and the future of your family depends on the decisions you make now. You are entitled to the necessary support during this life-changing transition.

Heather Candelaria


With over 20+ years as an award-winning Executive Producer, Heather decided to make the leap to Divorce Coaching, Consulting and Real Estate full time in early 2019. As a divorcee herself, she founded DIV/VY The Divorce Agency, along with her partner, Theresa Kleinlein, in order to provide the guidance, services and support they wished they would have had when going through their own divorces.

Heather is a Certified Divorce Coach and has earned her designation as a Real Estate Collaboration Specialist in Divorce. Building on her own personal experience, it is her passion to help others going through emotional life transitions with clarity and knowledge. Her unique skill set and strengths in sales, as well as project management, make her a natural as a Coach and Real Estate Agent and gives her the ability to recognize and deliver on her client’s needs through every step of a very emotional process.

She is a one half of the “Your Divorce Coaches” Podcast, a Single Mom to two teenage girls, want-to-be stand-up comedian and prides herself on the fact she has never ordered a Pumpkin Spice Latte.


Theresa Kleinlein


Theresa Kleinlein has been helping both men and women realize the realities of divorce since her own marriage dissolved in 2011. Her goal is to provide practical information and lives by her mantra “If you can’t save your marriage, save your sanity.” Theresa gives a real world perspective on juggling a full time career while balancing children, yoga, dating, and philanthropy.

Theresa’s main goal is to help the next generation of “children of divorce” by placing an emphasis on the tools necessary for children to maintain emotional stability post divorce. She provides a comprehensive approach to creating a new life with a positive foundation of self respect and confidence. She is a certified yoga instructor and holistic nutritionist, Certified Professional Coach focusing on divorce and crisis. She is a self proclaimed matchmaker, the co-host of “Your Divorce Coaches” podcast and in the midst of writing a book that outlines what “not to say” to your friend going through a divorce.

Contemplating divorce…. going through it… or building your new life post divorce? Theresa can provide the serious skills with a side of humor and irreverence.



• Pre-Divorce
• Divorce
• Post Divorce


Goal-oriented process designed to guide people going through a divorce.


Empowering knowledge and new lifelong relationships.

"Your Divorce Coaches" The Podcast is a no holds barred look at the subjects related to the realities of divorce. We explore everything from expert financial advice to how to set up your online dating profile. Whether you're looking for a new career or your new identity we want to educate you almost as much as we want to make you laugh. We may not be able to save your marriage but we can help save your sanity.

“I was on the verge of filing for divorce when someone from my church suggested I meet with
Theresa. I had not ever heard of a divorce coach and I didn’t understand why I was calling this person. Well what I got was a real life description of divorce from all perspectives. She didn’t tell me not to get a divorce, she just made me realize I would NEED to get alone with my spouse if we got divorced because it’s important for the kids health. So I put in effort and ended up staying married. I’m not saying my marriage is perfect but I’m thankful I had someone to give me the facts I needed to re-think my decision.”

“Therapy had helped my kids after my divorce but 3 years later I was still bitter and depressed. My therapist actually suggested I consider a coach that could help me create a life plan… and snap out of my negativity. My life is now completely different. My friends say I’m a new person. I owe it all to Heather.”

“I have a personal trainer, an assistant, even a concierge doctor. I outsource everything because my time is money. I listened to my attorney’s advice and immediately hired Heather Candelaria as my coach and my realtor. Anyone with a busy schedule like mine needs the efficiency of a coach during divorce.”

“When I went through my divorce I couldn’t count on my family or my friends to support me or understand my situation. I couldn’t sleep, couldn’t eat, and had to make major decisions regarding money, kids, etc… I wouldn’t be where I am today if Theresa had not helped me create a plan and emotionally let go of the pain.”

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All inquiries are confidential.


Divorce isn't such a tragedy. A tragedy is staying in an unhappy marriage, teaching your kids the wrong things about love. Nobody every died of divorce.
-Jennifer Weiner
Don't base your decisions on the advice of those who don't have to deal with the results.
Some people believe holding on and hanging in there are signs of strength. However, there are times when it takes much more strength to know when to let go and then do it.
-Ann Landers
Divorce is the psychological equivalent of a coronary triple bypass.
-Mary Kay Blakely
When two people decide to get a divorce, it isn't a sign that they "don't understand" one another, but a sign that they have, at least, begun to.
-Helen Rowland
Divorce is a declaration of independence with only two signers.
-Gerald F. Leiberman
Divorce is one of the most financially traumatic things you can go through. Money spent on getting mad or getting even is money wasted.
-Richard Wagner
Divorce is the one human tragedy that reduces everything to cash.
-Rita Mae Brown
Divorce is expensive. I used to joke they were going to call it 'all the money', but they changed it to 'alimony'. It's ripping your heart out through your wallet.
-Robin Williams
You know why divorces are so expensive? Because they're worth it.
-Willie Nelson
Divorces are made in heaven.
-Oscar Wilde
Heartbreak is a loss. Divorce is a piece of paper.
-Taylor Jenkins Reid
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Have you been thinking about a divorce?  On average, people contemplate divorce for over two years before ever taking the first step towards filing.  Our pre-divorce consultation services are completely confidential and will give you a roadmap of the Divorce process and what to expect, as well as an honest look at what life might look like on the other side.    


When you have decided to divorce, our consultation services are dedicated to assembling the right team of professionals that offer the best fit for you and the needs of your situation.  We work hand in hand with recommended professionals in every field related to divorce from lawyers to professional organizers.  The right team makes all the difference when approaching your divorce and every case is different.  We have done the research for you and a consultation with us could save you thousands of dollars and hours of precious time. 

  • Legal
  • Mediation
  • Collaborative Family Law
  • Parental Coaching
  • Therapists
  • Real Estate
  • CDFA & CPA’s
  • Career Guidance
  • Wellness
  • Personal Services

What is my life going to look like post-divorce?  We can help you craft a vision of what you want your life to look like after this chapter has closed and give you the skills to help you along the way.  Whether it’s personal wellness, getting back into the job market or guidance for future relationships, we are here to coach you and implement a system for you to live your best life post-divorce. 


Divorce coaching is a flexible, goal-oriented process designed to support, motivate, and guide people going through a divorce in order to help them make the best possible decisions for their future, based on their particular interests, needs, and concerns. The process is designed to help people dealing with pre-divorce, divorce and post-divorce issues. Depending on their personal situation and needs, a divorce coach can assist in avoiding procrastination and other roadblocks in order to move forward in the best way possible.

Attorneys and other divorce professionals often opt to work with divorce coaches because coaches do the non-legal work that attorneys and their staff generally don’t do or don’t have the time to do. Divorce professionals increasingly recognize how coaches can benefit their clients in areas from emotion and communication to organization issues and helping them get through and beyond divorce successfully.

The beauty of a divorce coach and the services we offer is that clients can choose the issues they want and need help with which can include a number of issues inherent in pre-divorce, divorce and/or post-divorce stages.

Divorce Coaches act as an independent 3rd party providing guidance, motivation and encouragement.


Divorce can be an isolating life event, especially if you are the first in your family or friend group to go through a divorce.  ​Our focus is on community and building a group filled with people going through the same crap you are.  We create events that take the edge off and provide a lighthearted reprieve from the day to day realities of divorce.  It is our goal to combine fun with useful, empowering knowledge and new lifelong relationships.